Some times your damned if you do and youre damned of if you dont. But on the EF its some times best to keep your cards to your chest for the first few weeks.
I am not at all uncomfortable interacting with people outside of my race. I generally don't notice. But, for example, when I go on a mountain vacation and go for DAYS without seeing another black person, you better believe I notice . And when I finally do see another black person, my smile might be just a little bit bigger than normal when I give my friendly hello.
Moreover, there are certain daily life questions relative to race and ethnicity that are best answered by people of the same race and ethnicity. It's nice to know who to ask for such questions. For example, I still don't know where to get my hair done, but thanks to ProsperityJoy I'll be sure to check out Kreis 4 next time I'm Zurich.
It's hard being new in town and that's without a new language and new culture. I am not surprised that someone might be curious about whether there are other people "like them" around even if it's only a superficial similarity.
"WTF is juice?"
I have a Swiss last name and my first name could very easily be Swiss. There's just a certain look I get when I am nowhere near the mental model they had created based on my name and telephone conversations. I think it's happened to me at every single job interview I've ever had .
i lived all my life in switzerland and 8 years in zürich.yes there are black people, you find americans,jamaicans,british,haitians,latinos and africans.you're you're in zürich, it's most multycultural city in switzerland and a lot of people speak english.
i used to do my exotic-foodshopping next to the railwaystation örlikon(that's 5 minutes from the city with the metro) in an asian market(cause many foodstores in loongstreet just rip you off), and for skin and hairproducts(also foods sometimes) i went to http://www.beautyessence.ch/ which is 5minutes by foot from the asian store.
if you have any questions about parties or if you want me to ask some of my friends to link up with you just let me know.
welcome to switzerland :-)
Then, also to have it mentioned, going out and getting around, any you can see quite easily how it is. And this "black is black" thesis ? It hardly represents reality in Black Africa or in Europe.
Yes that is are plan.
> people from the Indian subcontinent look enormously different depending on where they are coming from, with "Black" people from the South and "Europeans" from the North. An Indian businessmen , with who and his wife talked in Dubai, told me that his nation was as large and as diverse as if all the countries between Oslo and Ouagadougou were ONE country, but that the Indians of course also saw the "ethnic" differences. He laughed when I told him that I would have taken his wife as a Ticinesi woman (he KNEW Ticino ! ) and that he looked like Giovanni Agnelli.
> Ile de Gorée : it is the Euro-Arab Auschwitz. The place where European and Arab slave-traders handed over the "goods" to Euro-American shippers. Whenever the facts were/are known, it still was shocking
> New Orleans & Algiers-Louisiana : We had a black tour-guide, and when he had explained about Algiers-LA on the other side of the Mississippi-Missouri, I asked him whether he was aware of the fact that people in "real" Algiers did not look like him but like me, he confirmed that he DID knew, but that Algiers was the last African spot, the "loading seaport" they had either seen or heard about, and that the name therefore was taken for the emerging town when the former owner (of plantation and folks) proposed in 1866 to make the whole thing into a co-operative
> back to Africans in Zurich : the main-difference is invisible, I think also to them, and that is the difference between English and French speaking Africans.
The "Black-White-Asian" notion you mentioned is the thing out of the old Apartheid regime you and your forefathers experienced in South Africa and was the ideology of that regime.
Back again, go out, meet people, talk about whatever you have in your mind, and drop hesitations !
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What about a bit of diplomacy
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You CAN do so because you are a "White"
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Here in Zurich, NOBODY ! I never heard about this "black people ad watermelon" thing until a few weeks ago.
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Also, my question was quite simple... Nothing dramatic (except the interpretations).
Hope that helps.
If I was going to live in some random town in China, I'd also want to know whether I'd be 'just another European' or 'the most fascinating object of curiosity since Gladys Aylward passed through'.
Nothing racist about being forewarned and forearmed.