Bum feeling pervert or man trying to be 'helpful'

I can't think of a situation where I would go up to a woman that I don't know and start brushing something off her bum. If somebody did that to my wife I would be livid. The guy was a jerk, and trying to cop a feel.

Ahhhh, so defo was not parental instinct, unless you have the youthful good looks of a 20 year old

In which case, dirrrrrrrrty perve! lol

So, I think initial helpful intention, combined with an attraction to you, which resulted in a misguided attempt at helping/grabbing more than is respectfully allowed without consent.

But, I highly doubt the guy is a huge danger to the women of Zug. But if you do feel quite put out about it, the shop may have security cams in that area that witnessed it and if just to get it off your chest could talk to police, but in reality not much will come of it so.......up to you.

Sounds like you are in your 'Bloom'. Going forward be prepared more stuff like this might happen again & decide what your reaction might be. A kick in the parts, a slap around the face, speaking loudly whatever language so all can hear

Yes, definitely the situation would be quite different if the sexes were reversed.

Hopefully it was more of a surprising than a traumatic experience for the poster.

I think he's more of a danger to himself. He's either going to touch up a woman on the cusp of PMT and have a fist rammed down his throat (me) or pick a woman who's husband/boyfriend is two steps behind and find himself spread all over aisle 5.

I had a similar experience to this in Oerlikon last year. I was going up an escalator with my boyfriend and while we were chatting I felt someone touch my bum. I turned around thinking that someone had accidentaly brushed up against me. But no! It was an elderly lady touching my behind. I gave her a 'touch me again and you will be sorry' look and turned around again. The next thing I knew she was touching my bum again. I don't speak the language (yet) so I told my partner what was going on and he confronted her about what she was doing.

She told him that I had some fluff on my trousers and that she was trying to brush it off. He told her that it was inappropriate behaviour and that you should not touch a strangers bum for any reason. She told him that she had made many friends this way and she was just trying to be helpful and that she would continue to do it. This turned into a full on arguement in the middle of a shop about appropriate or inappropriate behaviour.

There was no fluff on my trousers so I have no idea what was really going on. I checked my bag and wallet and everything was still there. Maybe she wanted to see if I kept money in my pockets. I'll never know.

If I saw white stuff on a lady's bum I would be reluctant to touch it with my bare hands

Bum feeling pervert or man trying to be 'helpful'

My vote goes to the 'bum feeling pervert'...

to fully understand all possibilities we really need to have a photos of the offending area and from different angles, only then can we determine the mindset of the male involved

With or without aforementioned cycling shorts?

I would report it, just so it is on the record if the guy tries it on again with someone else.

I guarantee this was no offer of help, and even if it was well intentioned it is inappropriate and a violation of your privacy.

If the sexes were reversed it would not be any different, even though a man might feel less threatened than a woman would.

mmmmm initially with and we go from there......

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Unless it were a BOB , of course

i got touched up in the supermarket once and at work a few days ago... both times by ladies in the 50 - 60 yrs age group....

How quickly would they clean that up?

Thank you all for your help, today I have been to the police and reported the incident, hopefully he will not try anything like this again

Very well done!!

I hope police have collected the evidence

i saw zee bottom anz it was welly dorty. i shutted to the voman and shee does not understand myz inglish or jaarman. I proceeded to rimove the dust from her bottom and continuosly patter her bottom anz remove zee invading dust from zee bottom. i am velly surry fur any misunderstooding.

Have you been wearing a lot of tweed lately?

HAHA, it must have been my huge muscular frame.....

but both times they were ladies that have had a lot of plastic surgery and had lots of cash by looks of it