Yep, but clubbing isnt quite the scene I was looking for, more a social gathering, drink etc for divorced, seperated or singlies in the 40+ range yes, but definately not the clubbing / meat market style that seems to be how its all turned out in the UK now.
What makes it even worse is that they usually use pictures with the best looking people on the party.
Sorry for earlier glibness; unfair to all.
Most English speaking social gatherings are organised through the usual channels - such as English Forum! - where attendees tend to be a healthy mix of ages between 28 - 50. EF events have historically not been meat market evenings, thank goodness, but your mileage may vary elsewhere.
May I recommend attending a comedy club ? Usually there is a healthy gender balance and people leave their baggage at the door. 200+ strangers laughing out loud together with a gin and tonic in their hand is IMO the best place to meet happy, fun people who are willing to talk to each other. You don't get that in pubs much.
Dont apologise for glibness, keeps thing not too serious, its a good approach.
Thanks for the comedy club suggestion, sounds a good idea, I will try that sometime. If nothing else I could do with a good laugh
Hmmmm, what do you think girls, do we wanna check him out?
Jeans ok. It seems de rigueur for üNights. Otherwise you're making too much effort for just a bit of fun. I mean, he's been looking over for ages now, I think he fancies you, go on, say hello. OMG he's coming over...
Yep, course you do, check him out
EF must have jinxed me because now I'm getting ü30 adverts from Facebook.
Seems I missed the Feb meat market...when is the next session "to be checked out"