Free dating websites

Glad you said it.

A man should only be the topping on an otherwise happy cake.

Very very true! If you are so afraid of being alone then there is something wrong. Many women are only happy when they have a man in their life and views a man as their only source as happiness.

It took me many hard life lessons to realise that men come and go and that if you cant make yourself happy then you are in trouble!

Im single and im extremely happy! :-D

Pictures please!

send a pm to forum member ouchboy and include picture.

make sure it has a donkey in the picture if you want a reply!

good luck and have fun. i found swiss dating sites to be crap and that was as a man. i think it is even worse as a woman.

good on you for getting out there straight away. i think there are 2 strategies after a relationship:

1. take time alone to get over it

2. go out and shag as many people as possible

maybe you'll find somebody before you hit the 30 wall...

One word - supermarkets ....... best place to meet future prospects, if you're not a pubescent adolescent.

I know we don't have the same biological clocks, but I was still living and enjoying the life of an 18yr. old 'til I was 35, and a dad for the first time (I think/hope) at almost 39; my wife was 35, and over 40 for the 2nd.

- don't feel under time pressure - have fun shopping on the fresh meat counter.

...... a bit like squirty cream: looks great at the start, but after a short time ................

It gets soft around the edges and you realize how much fat there is?

Option two??? big no no....

Do you have any hobbies? Join a club! You will meet people that you already have something in common with, or go travelling, I met my husband at an airport, lol.

Awww.. sweet!I need to start hanging out more at Zurich airport then!

....... or the lorry park at a motorway service area, might be easier.

hmmmm......then again im not desperate for someone! No thanks! Its really funny...I always get Swiss men looking at me on trams and then get all shy when I look back at them...Its either they find it strange to see a black woman in the tram OR its their way of flirting! ....Still trying to figure out Swiss men....

why not? i've known people who've done it? kinda makes sense. if you've been with just one person for 7 years or so, you might be ready for a bit of variety...

That normally leads to more misery...How do you regain your self worth by throwing yourself at many men?

Think about it...you break up with your long time boyfriend, you feel miserable and then you shag a string of men???

Variety is good if you are grocery shopping NOT when you are feeling miserable!

I say start a new sport! * If only I took my own advice! I also need to start a new sport... *

you think you have no time at your age?? try 41 - have had a few serious relationships but I don't think the UK is really geared up for decent people looking to meet decent people anymore, maybe I will have more luck out here....

Pete

You have one very tolerant husband...

Wrote this some time ago:

It can even be on a free dating site - happened to me too