I really had a good laugh, thanks everybody!
Now, I'm not saying it makes ME uncomfortable, but I really do think about ME if I was in HIS position!
I can tell, with what I saw, I have nothing to be impressed compared of what I am married to.
Was I staring?
DAH! Of course!
Its right in my face, and I bet with any of you to not stare!!!!
Now, I am not waking up in the morning just to not miss the show.... But since I have a pretty landscape (I really mean landscape here!!! Mountain, trees....) to watch from my flat, I do look by my windows a lot.
If it happened in the same time he took his shower.... what a girl can do? He!
Welcome to urban living Nil I occasionally catch a glimpse of my neighbours in various states of undress and I just completely ignore it. It would only really bother me if I had kids in the house because they can't help but stare.
If your apartment were the only one that could see him, I'd say hold your tongue and just try not to look out that window at those times. Not worth the embarrassment (on both sides) that would result from mentioning it.
Since it isn't, you can maintain anonymity by taking it to the Hauswart.
(An anonymous letter in his box would also work, but may be seen as a little bit confrontational. Complaints are supposed to be funneled through the Hauswart - that's his job.)
I wouldn't phrase it as a complaint, since he is probably not in breach of any rule. Just say that you have noticed this issue, you are not sure how to broach it with the neighbor, and hoped they could mention to him sometime that there is a problem.
Voyeurism is big in Germany too. When I was living in Munich - Baderstrasse actually, won't say the nr. for fear you might recognise me... anyway, my boyfriend and I used to watch the couple two stories below us in the opposite building having it on... it was quite exciting really, we saved lots of euros on P*rn...
anyway, one evening they were really getting it on when we were waiting for the exciting parts to happen - oh yes, forgot to say we were hanging out the ceiling windows, those silly ones you can tilt and hang out of nearly - anyway, just as we thought, right here it goes, the woman gets up and turns off the light...... well you can imagine our dissapointment.... oh bummer, back to watching CSI then.....
I don't think they sell a lot of curtains in the city of Munich... it's a "look and learn" community...
Always the best advice at EF
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All i can say to that video is "soap on a rope" It wasn't invented for nothin'!!
...and do not, whatever you do, waggle it from side to side!
One word, reciprocate. Have a little jig at your kitchen window or whatever it is, and he'll get the point.
Make your mind up! You can't do both - not unless you've got some new system of logic up your sleeve...
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Dougal my Pal you canae say something like that and not explain wot u mean exactly...
I care for a demonstration...
Of course I can!
Ignoring somebody's advice is not the same as disregarding the fact that they're a nosy sod.
In fact, ignoring advice is something of a speciality of mine, so I know what I'm talking about.
I would agree with this and have seen a few things like this whilst going about my daily business. It seems to be a national pastime in the city to shower with the window open, I think it's quicker than going to the shared sauna to show off...
If the woman in the apartment opposite me is late getting up in the mornings, I miss my train and end up working late... again. If it happens much more I'll probably have to find another job.
A little help and inspiration on how to write a note in German...
and some translation for us who cannot speak German?
Nah
keep the fun to just us google language tools users!!
No, even you can't... You said you would completely ignore the advice,
then said you would also wonder .
Thus you unambiguously state that you would react to the advice,
invalidating your earlier completely ignore claim.
Ya wanna fight on Information Theory turf? Bring it on!!!
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"To the young lady with the dark hair and the shaved genitals living on the third floor: The next time you have sex with a fat guy at the window, please close the curtains, we have kids."