I am not sure whether this is a language-based issue. But for the sake of your mental and social health I would severly advise you to change this into wish/would prefer etc. especially as an US-american! ... And not only in your language use, but also and even more importantly in your mind.
Hmm, how did you aquire such a perception? At least among the German-speaking Swiss, people from Berne are considered as propably the most cozy/friendly Swiss according to the majority!
Very right!
@OP: Advice no. 1 among the 101 for US-american expats in Switzerland: Start to learn about your future environment more profoundly, and more than you think, IF you do not like to become percieved as the usual, ugly, arrogant, and ignorant american berserker! There is more outside of your 4.5% minority of this world, and it looks quite different, I can tell you!
From everybody else I would assume he/she is aware about this eternal commonplace. But well ... Do not underestimate this very good advice!
Would that not be one of the first things anybody does, when she/he learns about a new possible place to stay, may it be for holiday, but for sure in the case of a possible dislocation!?!
Indeed!
Not only a mistake, or a profound misstep. OP, do you have profound problems with people from other confessions? Well, you will not only find a mix of confessions living just next door (yes, again, no ghettos to be found here), but also a quite a large amount of Antitheists in Switzerland (almost every third in canton of Solothurn, 27%), and in Solothurn particularly, also one of the very few Mosques with a (small) minaret in Switzerland!
And even though the largest confession in Solothurn are still Catholics (35%), religion is hardly a daily business! Besides, there are also 24% of Protestants (Evangelian) to be found in canton of Solothurn. So you can calm down.
Pardon-me?
ALWAYS a very good advice to follow from very early age. We learn that here in primary school. You don't?
Let me tell you just one, but very valuable advise: Start to open up (i.e.: become curious and do not expect it to be as you are used to, just because you do not know differently) and behave like an adult who knows what her/his responsibilities (and rights) are, otherwise you will fail here so easily in Switzerland, even worse than you would ever dream of! Especially on social issues.
Good luck.