I am in desperate need of advice regarding my baby's birth certificate situation.
My child was born on 16.03.2022. Around January time we submitted all of our documents to the Zurich civil office to be checked, as neither myself nor my husband was born in the EU... Long story short - it's still being processed which is a shock to me as its been 5 months. they mentioned everything is fine, papers look good on our side it's just taking a while to get the verified paperwork to Bern first to be approved and then to Zurich. once the documents get to zurich, they said they need another 3-4 (!!!) weeks to issue her certificate, which means this wont to be settled earliest until end of June.
For her then to get a passport, which is ofc not possible until we have the birth certificate, we need another 13 weeks, which means October time her passport will be ready
My problem is that we have planned our wedding for this year September in Italy. its been 1.5 years we've had this planning and never expected her paperwork to take more than 4 months (which is what they told us standard processing time is).
I honestly dont know what to do as i'd want her to be on our wedding and even if not, i have no one to leave her with in Switzerland. I feel really horrible and at loss of speech to be honest, it looks like we'd have to move the wedding or something, but its huge costs to us as well as to our guests...
finally my question is - has anyone been in the similar situation? please advise because i really dont know what to do. i was even wondering if i should hire a lawyer because due to this delay we are potentially in thousands of loss.... when i call th people in the civil office they dont really care and keep saying to wait... needless to say i still didnt get my maternity pay. please please please help with an advice...!!!