>>>>There are lot of warm people around in Ticino, yet anyone "could" be racist.. >>>>> "Yes that is true" But just for information, racism should not be confused with xenophobia. Racism is a disease, like a cancer that is mostly ravaging western country because of our recent history. I'm referring to racism as a theory where you make hierarchy of races and hence develop afterward systematic biased judgments. Believe me a lot of white folks suffer from that. Usually we don't consider them as first-class racist but people who need to know and learn as opposed to the theorician who still try to enforce their imagination. Indeed it has become part of the culture. You can't just erase like this 500 years of racist cultural education. From scientific to historical falsification. It is not easy and it takes time indeed.
Now for the balance, xenophobia is everywhere, such as in Africa too. I know that in central africa for instance, nowadays people are not necessarily kind with pigmies people or just they neighbor in the region.
>>>but that's sometimes up to us to see things racist or not, isn't it?
I just have my way of dealing with it, and I have lots of friends even though I don't go out that much..>>>>
I again somehow agree with you. I don't think this forum is really appropriate for this kind of debate and my goal was mainly to be aware of things here. To be prepared in case their is a problem. To have the right interpretation.
And if you want to know, I never act as a victim cause part of my philosophy is "whatever happens or comes trough you, what matters at the end is what you gonna about it => You want something make it happen => In some sense: Get Rich or die trying Lol " Still I need to know what is going on and then act on it.
Meanwhile,
I don't see racism or whatever as something to be downplay. Depending on the person the effect could be devastating. It depend. But please look at Micheal Jackson, or what some black folks end-up doing to their hairs, style, culture or own people because of it. It could be a pressure that not every one may easily live with or fight against.
Just to give you an example:
Holland is Ok, it is the country of freedom and business :-) and Creazyness sometime, which is what balance Racism out there.
Still, I lived there 2 years in Utrecht, a city not that much colored and I struggled to find a partners of the opposite color while in france it takes me 2 minutes :-). Of course depending on where you live (I'm from Toulouse). . In Amsterdam, you don't care because, the black community is bigger and people mangle more easily (the same when I lived in Paris at the time of my engineering school, I was mainly going out with black ladies). Right After that I went back to france toulouse before coming here and found again someone else (white) in less than a month lol. Although it might not last long because I decided to keep moving and she didn't want to :-( . Hence I will certainly need to find the heart of my life here lol. Indeed, answering at the same time to your first question: I'm bound for a minimum of 3 years here for doing a Ph.D in Computer science within the faculty of communication science. So if you need help do not hesitate to contact me. I'm also a junior expert in computer science engineering with a major in cognitive science and advanced computer sciences.
So on the relationship level it could be affecting you sometime.
That was a simple example but just to show you how it can affect your life.
I will not cite you the example of finding an apartment, or the questioning of the banker when opening an account etc....
In conclusion, sure we don't have to see the devil everywhere but it exist and it is measurable and in more Western developed Country which have their own big problems too, they address publicly the problem so you have law or incentives to help break the cycle (UK, US, ..) France is special but now vigourously on the move because of the Obama election. I guess our legendary arrogance was touched (we are the country of human right lol)
Yes people sometime exaggerated, they see racism where it is just a kind of xenophobia (not acceptable too) or ignorance but which is an attitude that human being share everywhere including African descendant people. But I don't think that it is just a matter of opinion or feeling.
Anyway, all of you are telling me that it is not too much or quite acceptable in the sense that you can go out everywhere and do your things, so it's cool then.
Many thanks,
Maatari