The most recent thread on this topic was last updated in 2012 so I'm guessing things have changed since then? Hopefully someone here has been through the experience and can share additional tips and wisdom. In addition to visiting the house in person and asking questions, we've done a ton of research online. The problem is that so much information is conflicting or incomplete.
Offre d'achat (offer to purchase) - Seems like this doesn't need to be a formal, signed document although some sellers would like it. Some sites say if you do prepare a document, include everything such as the appliances and toilets! Others say you don't need that much detail. Some sites say you can take 30% off the asking price in your offer and not offend anyone, but I find that hard to believe. We'd like to offer 10% less than asking. Is that acceptable? Or is that stupid and we'd be overpaying?
Compromis de vente (initial contract) - Clearly necessary and legal, but how do we get to that point? It's supposed to contain all the legal details, yet from what we've read it is only after the cdv is signed that the notaire starts searching deeds and whatnot. In addition, if the offre d'achat is legally binding, what is the recourse if the notaire's search turns up red flags?
Conditions suspensives (conditional clauses) - These seem critical, but how detailed does one need to get? Some sites say include the kitchen sink (see above) but others say keep it simple.
Costs in France - We've been told that on French side, our costs are the home itself as agreed with the seller, and the notaire fee of 8% which includes all the taxes and fees. Any solicitor or surveyor we hire would be extra. We'd also owe tax foncière and maybe tax d'habitation and basic running costs even when we're not there. Anything else? How many days can we visit our holiday home without being considered French residents for tax purposes? Has anyone hired a surveyor? There are mandatory reports the seller has to obtain but they don't check thinks like the roof, etc.
Costs in CH - So far we figure: Notaires here for signatures, loan startup costs, small mortgage. The house will add to our overall wealth but the mortgage will offset. The mortgage interest and some maintenance costs are deductible, but figuring out what is deductible is proving challenging. And of course our usual living costs we already have.
Thanks for any advice!