FYI for you kind folks who responded. Vet phoned at 8pm (!) on Friday night to advise that test results are in, and......not at all good.
He has offered to book us with an oncologist to get a second opinion, and pricing estimates for chemo, but also gave his personal opinion - we trust him, so we won't be pursuing further treatment options.
Our gal is outwardly healthy now, but we've been told she'll only be with us for a month or two at absolute best.
So, I was hoping this post would contain more positive info and/or an update on chemo costs in 2020 to help other EF'ers, but not so.
We get to enjoy her fabulous-ness and love for as long as she's happy, eating, active and pain free (as best as we can ascertain anyway, because doggies are so tolerant!). We have an option for over-the-counter pills with cortozone (just makes her pee more so probably not) or pills with a blend of steroids to help keep her comfy. In the meantime though, whilst she is still able to, she's getting to eat herself silly with as much cheese and milk and honey and eggs and other treats as she likes - lucky little sod. (she continues to have a preference for cat food over dog food AND she loves to suck on champagne corks, little weirdo!)
What I hadn't realised, is that before we went into lockdown, we would have had the option to put her to sleep at home, which would have been amazing (all things considered). Now though, assuming we're still in lockdown at that point in time, we have to take her to the vet when it's time for her last sleep; but he wasn't sure what the process will be (because there's a snowflakes chance in hell that we're not going to be with her until the very end). The vet will need to consult with colleagues and revert on that.
I haven't checked past posts on what next happens to deceased doggies, that's on the list to research in the coming weeks....
Little bugger. I had recently bought 18 months of fancy dog food and dried fish and chew sticks and flea treatments etc. Happy news though - the tierheim will get an additional donation of goodies as a result.
Please folks, no sweet messages or good wishes needed. It's just the way of life, and I already know that any of you with furry family will understand that this is a shitty, shitty situation.