I married 13 years ago and moved to Bern Switzerland. Me and my husband both got Swiss citizenship. Are married life is becoming worse day by day and now he decided to quit are marriage and wanted to file divorce, he often fights and sometime physically abuses me, more over he always threats to divorce me and took are children and leave me alone, so most of the time I compromises with all this shit just to avoid losing my children, I love them second to none so I apologize him every time. My family lives in Philippines and my husband didn’t let me visit them from last 8 years. It is just because I am not familiar with Swiss laws about divorce and child custody & support and I am not a working women at present makes me think that if my husband went to court he might be considered more suitable for the child custody because he is earning and I am not... We have 2 children, elder one is 12 years old and other is 9 years old. I never worked and lived as housewife since I moved to Switzerland and my husband also wanted me to stay at home to take care of our children.... We are living in a rented apartment and didn’t own a house either...
So I was searching and found this site quite helpful after went through different treads...
Please guide me about the following questions
What should I immediately do?
Which option is more beneficial for me divorce or separation?
What are the chances of getting my children’s full custody? (Keeping in
view I am not working at present and there ages are 12 & 9 years)
Will I get any financial support for myself and any child support immediately? If yes how much if my husband is earning let’s say chf.8000?
Do I have to pay for the debts he owed to bank?
How long the whole process will take including divorce/separation and child custody?
Regards