Nope. As a non-EU citizen, you can only get an independent work permit if the employer can’t find an CH/EU citizen for the job. Which means you need to be highly skilled. If you only have high school quals it won’t work.
You’d either have to do a full time language course, then when your language is good enough, apply to a state University. Or apply to a private uni that teaches in English (but that will only keep you in Switzerland for a few years).
What a Swiss employer has to do and what qualifications/experience you need to have are detailed here.
Short answer is you have no chance of getting a job here. Find a job in your country or do further education to get the qualifications/experience needed and then a Swiss employer might be able to hire you in a few years’ time.
… enjoy being independent, learn how to cook yourself, live on your own maybe for the first time ever (do your own laundry 
), come and visit your mother for holidays and familiy feasts, show her how well she raised you and check out the situation and possibilities you have here while visiting.
And for the moment: Let your mom go and be happy about her new marriage and not have her worry about you.
thanks. i’ll try this.
I think this would be unreasonable. It seems more logical to study at a university in a nearby European country.
lol
You think it’s unreasonable to live without your mother at 20 
Everyone’s family culture is different, my friend. Family ties are very important in our culture. I can’t be bothered to explain this to you. So, don’t go beyond the question I asked. We are not trying to meet.
Sorry for being picky but I think you’ve only mentioned you lived in Turkey but not that you only had the Turkish passport =)
Answers here seem to be correct as for the options you have.
One more follow-up question, none of your parents or farther ancestors had an EU nationality you could claim?
Well then your mother and step-father need to stay in Turkey, being brutally honest, if family ties are so important.
You may be able to get a residence permit for a few years as a student. But the chances of you having to return to Turkey when your studies finish are high, so it would only be a solution for a few years. When you agree to come as a student, you have to sign a document promising to return home afterwards, You’d really need to research what to study that MIGHT enable you to stay (ie careers in health as there is a staff shortage there).
Sadly no. and i just have Turkish passport
They also want to do what makes the most sense for my future. If I can come, we will stay there. If I can’t come, they will return too. They will talk to a lawyer. We want to do the most logical thing. I am just writing here to see if I can get information myself. If it is not going to work about Switzerland, I plan to study at a German university close to our home. Sometimes I can stay in the Germany and sometimes at home. but if I am accepted to a university in Switzerland, I don’t think it will be difficult to find a job after graduation.
Nothing much to do with logic but only with law.
Full time study here could give you a student permit with all the caveats described already.
Finding a job (afterwards) will depend on what you studied and how good you are as the competition is fierce. It‘s not a question of having studied here and immediately finding a job quite often.
Graduates from Swiss universities have access to a 6 month permit to look for a job.
Maybe someone else would be able to comment on this weak nuance if it could help the OP:
your unmarried children and grandchildren under the age of 18 (and even under the age of 21 or dependent if they have a residence permit from an EU/EFTA country);
Source: Application for family reunification in Switzerland
I am thinking,
At this point, it comes down to self-confidence. I don’t think I will have any trouble. I will not waste the opportunities given to me.
That’s exactly what I was thinking. also through lawyer We will point out that it is difficult to live alone in my country. If Switzerland cares about this situations, it may give me a chance.
If I join university in Germany, I get a residence permit. With this in mind, when we have a family reunion, do I also get a residence permit in Switzerland? I’m curious about the answer to this question, too. This is very complicated
If you can afford a lawyer to handle this, IMHO start right there. Having a rejection in your history is also not a good thing (probably).
If you join a German university AND live in Germany (have a room - pay rent for an apartment) you get a German student residence permit. This permit allows you to travel to Switzerland for short visits (tourism) up to 3 months at a time. But you must continue to live and pay a place in Germany, or they may cancel your permit.
If you join a German university AND live in Switzlerand, the Swiss may give you a cross-border permit, allowing you to travel between the countries every day. This depends on many factors, including distance.
None of this is linked to your mom’s situation.
In both cases, after your studies are over or you abandon them, you may get a short period as a job-seeker (eg 12 months) and then all your permits are canceled and you have to leave the Schengen area. But finding a job is different for you than other people, it cannot be any job (eg cleaner, say), it must be a job in a specialized domain.
No. Very simple.
Point is, op has no title to live in Switzerland and studying in Germany won‘t give him that.
I know these. Just a permit that allows me to stay both at home and in the dormitory while studying is enough for me. I didn’t think about canceling my study.
This is wrong. I have a friend who studies in Poland. While studying in Poland, he can travel all over Europe as much as he wants. Including Switzerland. Even Poland can doing that. Germany should as well
But first the process needs to be completed. Someone we know was able to take his 23 year old daughter after she was rejected. A vote was held in Switzerland for her and she was accepted. But the process took 1 year.