I am well dressed. I don't need to dress as a banker bacause I work in a very very similar business. I do wear nice suits and ties in daily life. And I do wear smart casual appropiately. And I do have friends in fashion industry which are very sensitive to the outfits The shoes? I have got many.. Too many probably )))
Not the case! But thanks anyway!!! Good advise.
We might close it, perhaps after you've also shared with us as to what worked with your conquest attempt ??
I can't speak for everyone (obviously) but generally speaking, when my friends and I were younger and would go out, we hardly ever interacted much with guys who were there solo.
A group of guys was a different story though as then there was more opportunity for shifts and byplay to see who got along with whom.
Meanwhile, single guy tends to be (understandably) hesitant to approach a group of girls and if he DOES manage to do the brave thing, he often comes across as cheesy. If he doesn't make this mistake, sometimes the girls will still let him be as it may be a matter that the girl he's interested in isn't particularly interested in him but one or more of the others may be interested.
No group of gals really wants to mess up their group over some unknown guy. Later, after getting to know him it may happen... but not (generally) on first meeting.
So, the best thing to do is to go out with at least one friend but do not remain glued to each others side all evening. (Of course, I know the second half of that message goes for girls... not to stay too close knit together as it is rough for guys to approach a whole group of girls, even if you indicate interest.)
Some people are good at fishing others whilst think that the fish will just jump out of the water into the net.