I thought I'd post here for some chat from parents with children currently in kindergarten.
My child (5 years old, part Swiss) is not happy at his Kindsgi. I'll try to keep things brief:
22 out of 26 kids do not speak SG, and those 22 are grappling to learn HG. So language has an impact on social connections.
Regulations in our area are such that a kid is assigned a kindsgi wherever there's space and not necessarily according to location. For us, there's only one other child in the neighborhood who is in the same class. It's been impossible nurturing friendships when some kids live near to eachother and others a good distance away.
The teachers (2 of them) are young, kind, open. But... bland. There's no other way to say it. Every day I see kids coming out of the adjacent classroom laughing, holding crafts and projects, joking around with their teacher, hugging her. In my son's class they literally run out and there's hardly a one who even says goodbye or smiles. When I observe the class on occasion there does seem to be a reserved behaviour from the teachers which doesn't make them unlikeable but... boring.
They are meant to have gym/fitness and forest visits with some regularity. This year they've done gym and forest 4x as there's always some reason to cancel (even if it's a legit reason, the fact is the kids lose out).
I've discussed my concerns with the teachers. They don't think there's much of a problem --for them it's natural that each kid does what they're good at and is only "pushed to do more" if they need it. My son is an independent, quiet sort and they've admitted to just letting him do his own thing. What's the point of that?
So while I can't exactly stand up and shout "this kindsgi is depressing my child", it's pretty obvious that there's not much challenge to his day, plus the lack of inter-personal connection to the teachers, the kids speaking their own mother-tongue to each other, and no school friends in the neighborhood.
In my teaching and personal experience people who choose to teach really young kids have been exciting, they conveyed a feeling of "oh, the world is a limitless place to run and romp" LOL! The kindergarten teacher is THE master of all things crafting, gluing, adventuring, experimenting; the initiater of seasonal projects and mender of scraped knees on the playground. She is the mother away from home. My child's teachers told him "they'd hardly noticed" when he'd been away sick.
Which brings me to this point: we're now struggling to get my son out the door in the mornings. He just doesn't want to go anymore. I don't relent and he goes, but he ain't happy and neither am I.
Can you share your experiences if this sounds similar?
A really big, heart-broken sigh from this mum,
Lea