Non EU GF refused concubinage

Could you suggest me a lawyer? Possibly some service that would not be a total scam

Not a personal recommendation but I have heard these guys are very good. But note they are in GE.

https://streng.ch/en/immigration-2/

There’s a lawyer bar in every canton. Considering it’s a CdL, it should be Geneva.

This is the contact info of Geneva Bar Association.They offer advise every day from Monday to Friday. 60 CHF for a 30-45 min consultation. Physically or by phone. From this call, you may get an answer to your question or get redirected to an specialist.

https://odage.ch/permanence-juridique/

My experience when I needed some advice for the switch from student to salaried worked was the following. It was the bar association from canton Neuchâtel. I went to the first consultation, 40-50 CHF don’t remember exactly. Lawyer there listened to my case and sent me to an immigration specialist for a 2nd consultation. He listened to my case, quickly listed my options during the consultation with the caveat that he had to double-check if said options applied to my case. Then, Mr. Lawyer sent me home telling he’ll sent me a letter with his research. A week later, a letter listing my options arrived along a ~200 CHF invoice I was lucky and found an employer that sponsored my residence permit before I had to rely on the options the lawyer recommended based on my specific situation. Anyway, plans B and C to stay in CH were already there

Not a scam at all. Lawyers doing this kind of work and invoicing these low amounts are benevoles. These days, life is going well and every once in a while I need advice from lawyer or accountant at market rate Every damned coin paid to them returns somehow. Popular culture portraits them as evil entities, but they are useful if you properly manage them. Not your friends, always trust but verify, but they can help a lot.

I tried to contact her time ago, but she didn't reply.

I thought she stopped working in this field.

Tomorrow I will try again

I am not afraid of spending some money, I am afraid of burning all the fuel on useless attempts and remain empty when I find what I actually have to do.

We had to pick a date within 3 months of saying we wanted to get married.

Federal acceptance by previous cases is 3 years, try then if you don't want to get married (anything else is not considered serious)

Yes, I know because I spend a ton of money on lawyers

Sorry I don't understand, what is federal acceptance?