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sittin' on the bench ... like mister menace btw. also.

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Mr. Menace??

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yeah menace, the after midnight poster you know. wanted to thank him for the rep he's given me and it said > BANNED.

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Dang, what happened? Why?

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What if Mr wasted is really hurt and needs some loving?

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Where is Sophisticat when you need her?

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Like I said, no one had to claim love, if they wanted sex or my company they could have it just like that.

I have not made any bad choices, if you read what I wrote, I infact turned away from them, atleast at the last minute. I only had one messed relationship, it can happen with the best of us.

Re: Norwegan babe, I could have seriously jeopardised my escape from previous relationship, also I did not trust her to be honest. Why would she go for a broken man, as I was in those days, like me? Plus I did not want to rush into anything just because I was on a rebound.

Lets not be presumptuous, I do not really have any bad habits. During my time of distress I did took up drinking, and also bit of occasional drugs, but now I am fine.

I would appreciate reflections from someone's lives rather than subjective judgements please.

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You need to reach a point where the abuse you received from your former wife does not influence how your treat other women (i.e. act selfishly in bed, for example). Then you can share with someone else. Get rid of this obsession with 'love'. Don't forget that many of the women you are currently using for sex probably want to use you too; they're just not as good as you.

You have to comfortable with yourself and accept the ****** past as just that before you can be comfortable with someone else.

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huh? banging the roomate would have been a good move and help with the healing process...especially if the Norwegian babe was a screamer...parading around the place naked sipping on a brewski would have been a way of showing victory.....but that is just how I see it

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I def agree. I provide both sides of advice in these matters.

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As you know women can be poison my friend Get a good one and you are set for life. Get a bad one and you will get shafted all the way to your grave.

What every man requires is a combination of good sense and luck. Luck we have no control over but good sense you seem to be lacking so I think you will continue to get shafted

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Thank you Hashbrown. But I am not using anyone for anything, if someone shows some interest in me, I carry along. What else are you supposed to do if infact you are looking for a relationship.

Only annoying factor is, a recent development, when they start getting emotional and bring up LOVE, especially the second time we meet. I mean how can they be sure I am the right person and vice versa?!

I don't need any loving, just some insights and good advice.

I could do the mother, the sister, the neighbour and anybody else, but there comes a point when it looses its charm and you just get fed up. Sex ceases to mean anything more than a physical need, like hunger and thirst which has to be satisfied, no more than assisted masturbation, unfortunately.

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Not forgetting to wipe your knob on the curtain on the way out, of course.

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Mr Wasted I just gave you a green card for EFFORT.

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An inflated consciousness is always egocentric and conscious of nothing but its own

existence. It is incapable of learning from the past, it is incapable of understanding

contemporary events, and incapable of drawing right conclusions about the future.

It is hypnotised by itself and therefore cannot be argued with. It inevitably dooms

itself to calamities that must strike it dead.

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You need to be more selective in the women you bed then. Clearly, you are going after the insercure ones.

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you got it...you can alse write something on the wall...like "Honey, I was in your home"

well...those are the easy ones and they try harder

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Sihl Quai ones maybe?

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Deep and meaningful but I had to read it three times to understand it.

Possibly too much for a friday WeeJeem.

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I read what you wrote... And the way you treat women is a bad habit. Any self-respecting women that could provide the meaningful relationship you claim to want would be disgusted by how you say you treat women. Sorry, but the truth sucks sometimes.

Again, figure yourself out and the rest will follow.