weejeem - We are only humans and what you say is true, but at times of great agitation and frustration, things and attitudes are beyond our control, despite the full knowledge of the consequences.
One I was sitting in a pub somewhere around Greenwich, and started talking to a fellow drinker. He has lost his job consequently his wife asked him for divorce, so he lost his partner and kids and the house too. Along with it the will to live or strive for something better. And was happy just to sit there all day everyday, drinking on dole money, basically waiting for his time to depart the world.
He told me to stick around as he had a few more mates, in similar situations, who were to turn up. I really felt depressed, even more than I was and just left the place for another.
Yea, poor guy - leave him alone Hash, man needs meaning in his life, not some 3-times-a-nighter georgeous Norwegian with great tits and an oral technique to make Linda Lovelace look like a virgin nun. He needs a vision, a way forward, he needs to stand on the steps of the opera house stretch his arms to heaven and shout out " Yes I can ".
First you need to let you social side come out, do something selfless and of meaning for your fellow man - start by PM'ing us the Norwegian chicks phone number.
Ok, maybe I am a bad person then atleast they can stop telling me bullshit as well, and say it to me what they think of me!
After that lending the hand thing to please herself. She started having a go at me and asked me to leave and never to come back. I got up and left her apartment, which was like 3am.
And what does she do? She started callign me like crazy and txting. More than 50 all in all, apologising and asking me to come back. When I didnt respond she said, shes comeing after me to look for me. But by that time I had walked far away and turned my phone off.
The point you are missing is, I was not like this before. It only accelerated after my bad relationship! Can one not even show hsi anger, disappointment and grief?
yeah...sounds like Wasted needs to go out with SalsaLover. HB and Derv can provide some coaching...next day they will be invited to a session out in the nature with DR. DB.
Thats fine by me, I am not trying to convince anyone of anything just wanted to get it off my chest. Its easier on the internet, as I cannot bring myself to say all that to someone sitting in a bar.
If you would read what I write, you would realise I have no problem with women liking ME. Only one bad relationship. Problem is ME liking some WOMAN and trusting them for what they say.