Were you 'let go' in accordance with the correct procedures/processes ?
What changes can you make immediately to help your financial situation ?
How quickly can you get a new job ? Is there a way you can work from home ? How much of an income do you need to make things possible financially ? Is your profession something that you can do with a small baby in tow - freelance, work from home, telecommute ?
Having a baby does bring enormous changes for the whole family - feel free to talk through your stresses, get advice from experienced mums (not 'first timers') on what you *really* need for a baby (not much!)... and seek some professional financial advice...There are lots of websites for mums around...find one that suits your style...
You will survive! You will make it good! All a bubba really needs is loving parents, food (breastmilk is free!) and a warm place to be (close to your heart!) and the rest is just a bonus!
www.law-europe.com/documents/men_04_practice_03_10.pdf
It states what I already know about protection from dismissal when pregnant but then says "Notice given during one of the forbidden periods in paragraph 1 shall be null and void. If the notice is given prior to the beginning of such period, however, and if the notice period has not expired prior to such period, the expiration shall be suspended and shall continue only after termination of the forbidden period."
In the former case, the termination of your contract was and remains null and void, in the latter case, your cancellation period is halted until 16 weeks after birth.
Martin
The specifics of:
- exactly when the notice priod stops (e.g. when HR department is informed of the pregnancy, or doctor's statement of pregnancy to HR?)
- when it starts again
- what happens with the maternity leave that you are due, after birth
should probably be discussed with the HR department and agreed. The sooner HR knows, the better for both parties.
In my wife's case, she was not given notice. At the end of the maternity leave, she decided not to go back to work and they followed the normal notice period (where she stayed at home anyway) and worked things out.
I think the HR department will help you out there.
Good luck!
I personally wouldn't want to be in a job where they didn't want me or where I knew I was going to leave after I had the baby - I would prefer to leave earlier and have a rest before the baby came instead of working up until the end (or getting signed off sick like I have been for my first two babies). You can leave your decision to give notice a couple of months into your maternity leave. I decided to go part time after my first baby and was lucky my employer would do that.
Martin
OP: were you given notice last month or finished your notice period last month?
Martin
From my experiences I would check everything is okay at the 12 week scan before informing them (if you have enough notice period left).
It will protect you from being accused of being in any way deceptive, and you'll need a date from the doctor to prove that the notice period was indeed given when you are pregnant.
There is a cultural taboo about not telling people you are pregnant until after the 'danger' period is over, but I don't know if that's really the best advice - I'm sure you are entitled to sick leave if there are any complications with the pregnancy...and it'd be rare to get past the 12 week mark without at least one person around you being suspicious (the signs of pregnancy begin from within a few hours or days of conception)...
Thanks for any advice. I just want to know how it looks from the legal perspective.
cheers!
So, the notice period is suspended and if they want to terminate your contract after the maternity leave is complete, they should pay the 16 weeks plus the notice period, which would be 1-3 months depending on your contract.
However, you are expected to work right up until the time when the doctor puts you on sick leave, and they are free to restructure or reassign your job within the company if it is not hugely unreasonable.