Yeah that's just awesome. You do goddamn realize an abortion is not exactly on the same level as popping two Advils, but is a physically and often psychologically taxing experience and also not fully without risks for the woman, do you?
So then in your view, abortion is a form of birth control now for those who just happen to be allergic to literally EVERY other form of birth control (cough cough, sure, that's realistic)? And instead of fixing that, she just gets an abortion every few months?
She is now really sensitive, so my first try was this forum where I hoping get some answers. First abortion was because some medicaments what she take before something with skin. They say her is big chance for the baby will have some medicals issues and they recommend abortion.
Thats stil not reason to have foolish commentary.
Are you sure Tom? Insurance is not important in this case.
Here's a tip. If you want to avoid being judged then try and give as much detail as you can.
Sensitive or not, she has to get herself to the doctor. If she is unhappy with the way she was treated or is in any way nervous of the doctor handling her last abortion then she needs to find another.
Maybe you could have posted on here for recommendations for a sensitive and sympathetic doctor in the Bern area.
They might even set her up with a psychologist experienced in such cases.
1. Yes of course its my first post, because i dont need have here registration before.
2. My nickname was occupied, so i make this one.
3. If its something not correct accept my apologize.
4. Iam deeply sorry to everybody who I can offense with that. I mess up Swiss and Switzerland.
5. When Iam active with answers and want to know the answer, I dont think so.
For heaven's sake, that "pill for the skin that is risky for a potential child" is Accutane. And when you take that as a woman, you HAVE to sign a form that you are on birth control pills. You think the doctor just hands you or rather her that form for the fun of it? There is a reason for it.
Thanks a lot. I mess up. But of course i dont want to offense somebody. My apologize.
You have some problems with yourself? I dont understood. If you cannot help you should go to another topic where you maybe can.
Go to a doctor. When I got medication that could impair pregnancy my doctor always told me beforehand. And I also always read that information document that comes with the medication. So yes, in some cases you then have to have extra protection.
And read that nice overview that Lodz linked to.....
Iam sorry, that i want to know now before we will do some other steps. My girlfriend is now very sensitive. And i only want to know something before and maybe also make her calm before we will call or something.
Thank you so much, for your nice (in this topic normal) words.
For that you go to an internet forum? My oh my....
You better call a help line rather than posting this to the whole world
If the OP is not a troll:
Your girlfriend should visit her gynie as soon as possible, discuss options and then the 2 of you can talk through what to do. Should you and your girlfriend go through the procedure then be prepared for the mental and physical scarring.
Afterwards the 2 of you will need to draw up an effective form of birth control - there are numerous options available to you which will ensure your girlfriend won't have to go for surgery.
Good luck
If the OP is a troll:
Stick to anal in future
Yes i know all about the mental impact. And maybe is that only question. And maybe its also not from my side another abortion.
Yes i know that can look really weird but its like that. The life dont ask if we wanted like that.
Of course she probably know, or minimum she know where to call. But the other side of coin is that, she is maybe not not in state of mind to do something like that. Thats also reason why I did that. And want know few answers before we will together make some another steps.
@EF Some people just jump on any thing. If you think it is a troll either keep your pie grabbers from the keyboard or answer it simply and correctly.
There is no legal limit how often you can have an abortion. But from a medical view point you really should consider your options regarding contraceptions and be more responsible. An abortion can have serious side effects where death may be the happy option and life long infertility the worst outcome.
Thanks for your advice what not was be part of this topic. When I will want to know your opinion, I will ask for. Thats not topic about what the people think about it. Thats topic if its possible in Switzerland go again in the same half year.
Yes.
Next question.
Tom
That just happens. We cannot change that now. And of course in future we will make steps for that will never happens again.
I know all of the risk. That is just a question. She have worries and we both want know all the ways from this situation, before we will do some steps. Thats also reason why I first ask. To have all the information. And ask here on forum where I hope for little bit information. Not opinions or judge someone.
Thats necessarily give information what is really private to have only answer for a question? Is that so difficult to give answer (if you can) and not judge?
I'm sorry if this has already been said, but I am a little miffed now I wanted to write the following:
I'm thankful that we women have the choice to have an abortion if we so choose, but abortion IS NOT A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL!! If you cannot perform safe sex and inform yourselves on the multiple choices out there - YOU SHOULD PROBABLY NOT BE HAVING SEX.
There are so many couples out there trying to have a child and are not able to for various reasons. This makes me sick.
@OP,
You don't need to argue will the whole of the forum on their opinions, you will just end up with no information and loads of answers you are not seeking.
Yes many are offended about the situation, others have provided you the answer straight up.
From what I understand,
1) You and your partner need to be mentally prepared
2) There may be side affects mentally and physically
3) Insurance may or may not be an option based on if you decide to claim
4) Go see a doctor/gyno/psychiatrist for advice and not an Internet forum
For doctor recommendations and another stuff i can ask after. This is my first question. And after will maybe comes different things. Only because in country from where Iam is that not possible. I want have in hands all information and possibilities, before we will do something other. Thanks.
How can people give you a correct answer when you don't provide enough information?