This is one thing but I think the OP really needs to get his girlfriend to a doctor rather than trying to find out information from a general forum.
I'm not sure anyone who has had an abortion on here would come forward to exchange tips so the information the OP will be getting is just whatever can be picked up from the internet or supposition, with a bit of opinion thrown in.
SnoopSnoop - this is where you have to be a rock for your girlfriend. Call round some gynae offices, get the information you need and inform them she is distressed and needs handling carefully. When you find one that you feel secure with, then make an appointment and hold your girlfriend's hand every step of the way.
Thank you so much for simply and good answer. Nobody say we will do that. We both only want have all the options in hand before we call or go somewhere. Thats also reason why I write this topic. To me nobody give specific answers through handy. And also my girlfriend is now in situation when she is so much sensitive. Dont want speak about that with somebody other etc. Till she get calm i want have only some information what i cannot found on internet, to know before we will call or go somewhere to make decision.
Its very difficult to subscribe all the story to you or other one will understand the context. But trust me. I have same opinion like you on this things. And Iam also sad about the other couples which one cannot. And when something like that happens to us, so near to abortion before that also NOT means we use abortion as birth control.
Maybe its not enough information to be not judge, but thats the point. For answer it is. For dont be offense not.
Exactly that I will do. Only reason why I asked here its my German its really not enough to asked for something like that through handy. And Iam also not in state of mind to try many different doctors and wait and wait on line. There I put the question and only hope for answer. Thats all.
Only one post with this information was be enough. Thanks one more time for it. Sometimes i just let myself fall in commentary with people and them opinions, when they judge without reasons and informations.
Many doctors speak great English and they usually have reception staff which also speak enough to sort out an appointment. Be patient, be clear, write it all down before you call so you don't stumble.
And as english doesn ́t seem to be your mother tongue, there are lots of doctors who speak other languages (mine speaks english and italian). So better find one who speaks your language as well
My experience around Bern with doctors its not so good. But that is also option. I only from beginning hope to get for clear question, just simply answer. Topic around maximum few posts.
I hope you are happy with your life. Most when you have need to be so foolish. Of course I count with reactions but yours are very relentless and maybe even childish.
Thank you for your time. Answer for my question I already get. Then you dont must be anymore active in this topic. Have a nice day.
Dear SnoopSnoop, Welcome to the English Forum. It can be a great place for expats to send and receive useful information. However, as you have already seen with your first post, there are a massive load of dickheads on here.
Thanks a lot for support. I wish i knew that before. But Iam really glad also for the persons which one can but more want help and to them belongs big thanks.
You just need to sort out the wheat and ignore the chaff. I suspect a lot of the people on here are office workers with nothing better to do all day during the working week. Try posting on the weekend in the future. They won't be there.
Quite honestly I think you've rather spoiled your chances of getting helpful information from quite a few members on here. EFers seem to have very long memories which is useful in that there is a wealth of information to be had for the asking but the negative side is that few of us appreciate members who throw around groans like confetti and User names tend to ring a bell the next time the same person asks a question. Not that members are necessarily aggressive second time round, but they might quite well simply ignore a further request for information.