why? and if you are, why let others know about it? im ok with "you" thinking US of A is gods own country, putting your hands over your heart n singing the national anthem. all countries do, many people like their country but to be honest: US people do let me know how much they love it, how great it is to be american, to live there. as a big footprints-leaving-super-power-nation...its the way it is, the way we are.
why? have you heard this from any swiss (fill in any other european country) in 1st 10minutes of smalltalk-> my profession is xy, im big, working big company/own BIG company. i make xyz millions a year. i have a house, xyz big, had cost 85555millions CHF. its so big, you can see it from a outerspace. big, eh? i dont! and i dont wanna hear about it, its of non-interest to me! i cant buy anything from that, i am not into a competiton! it doesnt give me any new (in)sights about life, most important: you!
for me and many other people i know not coming from america, THIS is what ruins all the sympathy credits. start groaning, but thats the bloody truth out there! i spoke with many americans about it. those that have lived here for quiet some time 5,10, 15 yrs say "i am right" and give a crap about it how big your career, house, car etc. is. its of no importance WHAT you are but WHO you are. if you like football (erm soccer) what team? whats your favourite beer, sports, latest travels, whats your PERSONA like???
true point! you never had a war (apart from south vs. north) on your home turf! go n have it, experience it in its full consequences and i believe you will think never again about a war your gov tricks you into. apart its one thing i dont get: there were so many occasions (korea, vietnam...etc.) where it was about : be against the war and youre against the USA. later all people claimed: bring our boys home! as "you" again found out how cruel the war is, how the media manipulated again facts. to me its like another Hitler is in charge n start another holocaust and after some time were sorry again that we didnt had a clue about it. sawry! why dont you learn from it?
yes, very harsh arguments! yes, its only the idea i got after i have read plenty US and european media (online, tv, print)! yes, i havent lived in the USA! yes, i only have traveled the BIG US of A a bit.
BUt i have spoken to you, i have lived with you since 20yrs all over europe i have lived, i have worked with you, i have chilled, relaxed, bbqued, played with and against you! i love arts and music and poetry from artist that are americans, i love some american goods (apple). but nobody could answer, nowhere i found my questions answered without "you" being appalling, rejective, non-constructive, capable of taking criticism, explaining your point of view to a dumb european without big footprints= big rumble in the jungle-"arguments".
to me its like i am working out in the gym and im not used to shower, change shirts n maybe (not necessary) put some perfume on. and being told that i smell...i sulk, get angry-> because i am a man and i work out... its the way i am!
but i layed in bed and i thought about what i was told. and i took on the criticism and changed (yes, we can!) a bit... now im nearly everybodys friend... couldnt believe how easy it was...