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I can confirm that Pakistani girls in the UK are very repressed.

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The concept of arranged marriage would gain much wider acceptance in the world if it were modernised to meet people's increasingly demanding desires. Here is an idea that goes in the right direction:

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I agree but we should still face facts whether in Pakistan, Africa, ME or Europe

Yes because humans are humans even if some societies are still bit backwards and not enlightened

Come on you are smarter than that. When a woman is not chained culturally, economically and religiously to a man then she has the option to pack up and leave when the man turns out to be an idiot. That option is lacking for most women in ME, Pakistan and other similar countries....hence the "lower" divorce rate. Not rocket science.

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Hmmm! Do I sense a little bit of jealousy? The friend ends up with the young babe...

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Does anyone else find this more than a little odd... why on earth would you call his girlfriend... shouldn't you be calling your friend to provide support instead? I'll wager you are coveting something that may not be yours.

As downright weird as this thread has been in general (seriously, posting about your "mates" issues and then ending with how he has made it "impossible to ride her bike to work", this gets a bit wtf from me)... once a night is hardly the end of the world... i'll wager most women on this forum would be chuffed with once a night. 3-4 times a night, every night, is hardly the norm.

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Correction, women have always been multiorgasmics , not just your ex'es.

We are RD, one of the few perks to the job.

Yes, some would, they are called men.

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can you imagine what would happen to the share market if all employees came to work groggy and tired from lots of night action every night and no sleep?

oops..

maybe that little mortgage kerfuffle in the US had nothing to do with it...

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I wasn't doubting that the women weren't capable of it.

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Once a year would do the trick for them too

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Moving this thread to a closed area to not scare EF's core target audience (expats aged 14-17)

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i guess you're of the quality not quantity school of thought Mr D..

am just reading a book where there is one gentleman, aka Mr Chipolata, who had the 5 minute special.. in this case I can imagine that 4 -5 times a night, continuously, would be necessary...

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Life is not perfect.. if you dont like your Face, what do you do... tell yourself off?

There is no Perfect solution, you can only go for least worse or adapt yourself to one.

If a man and a woman, after few years decid they cant live with each other any more then that does not give them the right to screw up the lives of kids they are responsible for bringing into this world.

Arranged marriages is a perfect institution as it is worldly possible, you cant just date your prospective partner a few times, have a meal, get drunk, get in bed and then afterwards say "well, you're not my type" .. that "arranged" bit makes sure that you take responsibility for your actions, not just an extra notch on your belt.

The only criticism I have heard of arranged marriages is from people who dont do it i.e. West. In my home country everybody is perfectly fine with it.

Yes there are few odd exceptions of things going wrong, but all in all it seems to work fine.

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I dont speak for ones in UK, they can be and will be, Im not surprised. Even the guys are a bit funny... never managed to be good friends with a BBCD

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I have seen way too many negative cases to know that you are talking bull I have also seen the quality of some of the relationships. Slave master relationship comes to mind Yes there are tons and tons of successful ones too but overall it is not as good as you are making it out to be.

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I doubt you've ever been to Pak to see "many negative" cases

Slave master relationship is good, you know some people have that kind of fetish Others prefer Boss secretary thing

But out of curiousty, what would you suggest as an alternative?

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an What if I told you that I was Pakistani and everyone in my family had arranged marriage That confused you didn't it? LOL

Everyone should have freedom to make their own right and wrong decisions. It's part of being an adult! Why should a woman be forced to live her parents mistake?

In that case you marry someone who is also ugly

Aren't religious people supposed to be less superficial?

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Then I would ask which "village" is your background from

Uh huh.. did I hear "force"... I thought you knew the distinction between a forced marriage and an arranged marriage?!

To tell you the Truth, its a joke we have back home that being a Paki guarantess you 3 things: food, a place to sleep and marriage even if you are an (God Forbid) unemployed cripple or even blind, you still have a very good chance of getting married and even one of your relatives will lend you their kid, if you cant have one of your own.

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That is because in the majority the women is not allowed to complain.

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Ooops... how did you find out?

You know the black burkas they wear, under the veil if you notice we make them wear Hannibal Lecter kind of masks

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Then I might say that I am from pindi or I might say mind your own business Why don't you ask and find out? LOL

An arranged marriage can be forced, unforced, semi forced, parent pressure forced etc etc. I know more than you think my friend. Remember I am from Rawalpindi LOL