Hi there!
My partner and I are actually in almost an identical situation . . . Here are a few tid bits that you might find helpful --
~ We found an apartment we love and decided to live in Baden....
- lower rent for larger apartment, more surrounded by nature, not as loud and busy as Zurich which seems to make our pup happy......
- old town baden is generally a-buzz with Something going on . . . shops are open, people are out from dawn to dusk, farmers markets, large yard sale / flea market type setup on Saturdays...... my partner and I sometimes enjoy just sitting and people watching while we sip coffee or tea at Moser's
~ Transportation to Anywhere is really quite simple.......
- if you are commuting to Zurich every day you will want to obtain a year long train pass.... which can seem quite expensive upfront, however with all of the tram/train rides, you will end up saving a nice bundle of money
- as long as you have a general awareness of the Direct trains from Baden to Zurich, you are in for a very pleasant and relatively quick commute
( Direct train from Baden to Zurich -- zero stops in between -- are at, Any-Hour'08 and Any-Hour-38 . . . So for example as long as you grab the 11'08 train you will arrive in Zurich within 15-20 minutes . . .)
~ V ery I mportant to decide what kind of atmosphere / environment you and your partner want to live in............
- Baden is a combination of small town busy and rural, depending on what area of Baden you live in, and also depending on how much time you plan to spend downtown
- Zurich, being a city, is obviously an urban atmosphere with some really fantastic beauty, culture, diversity, history and sights . . . .
~ Living in Baden has definitely saved my partner and I a bit of money
~ If you two are far more interested in the city-life, and are worried about growing restless in a more low key place like Baden, this is a Very important aspect to keep in mind.......
~ Being a student living in Baden and commuting to Zurich will definitely give you a good mix of both worlds . . . and it may keep the two of you more in touch with the city's happenings, while still allowing you a little bit of mellowness and down time if you'd rather not be around the hustle-bustle of city living . . .
Just some thoughts
Best of luck to you both with this decision!! It's a tricky situation at first, but once you and your partner come to an agreement on the best place to live, the stress will go away and you can just get out there and start enjoying your new home!
Last thing -- feel free to PM me if you have absolutely any questions or just want to talk some things over while you're in the midst of this decision making process!!