About Swiss Girls ?

I am new in Lugano, and i look somehow Spanish , But not Mexican of course.

but one thing which is little strange for me the swiss girls tends to not look at you and come and talk to you , despite in other places and countries , i don say all girls but a lot of girls were staring at me .!

Is this because they dont like Hispanic face !? or is this couture?

the only thing i v found out about these girls in this country they are very open when u start conversation with them but they never come for making conversation !

is this same for everyone or its just for me >?

You are finding your way around the Forum nicely - now you can try using the Search Function.

You are not the only one to notice folk staring at you.

'Advance search' for Staring has some suggestions for you.

Phil, I'm sure you have advice for this young man on how to pick up the local women?

Castromj, it may help folks to offer you advice if they knew a little more about you... perhaps filling your profile a bit more would help?

Are you...ehm!!....never mind

Someone else from Lugano felt this way recently .

this is exactly the case. they will never come talk to you. and, Swiss men never talk to the women either. They are all hooked up through friends, etc.

dude the problem is that they dont look ,, i dont know about these girls but swiss girls if they interested do they try to make eye contact and stare at you or is because they not interested and they don look....! or is this culture that boy go and start conversation in this country ?

It could be becuase there are a lot of sleazy people around so women avoid eye contact to not get into a conversation they are not interested in. People in Switzerland do tend to be a bit more reserved, even the expats. The best way is to find a good circle of friends and work from there. University should be a happy hunting ground.

Just go talk to any girl you want, you're the guy...it's your move not there's and NO, Swiss girls are not the typical romantic kinda girls who believe in platonic love, looks and whispers.

yeah. don't bother.

i actually assumed the OP was a girl after other girls to chat to...

"Hard to crack but once cracked, the insides are rewarding"

"instead of trying again and maybe harder"

so says this thread .

where were you and your advice when I needed you ?

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

i will keep my mind out of the gutter

Swiss girls like most intelligent girls can smell a desperate guy from miles away. Think about that.

One thing to add, lots of chicks are either Bi or Les (even if they don't look like), and i'm not joking neither sarcastic, this is a very true fact, at least in Romandie

ha ha... because you can't pull them?

Based on both my friends' and my own demeanor, I would say that Swiss women will rarely make the first move. And if they do, it's usually not more than a smile.

Not the case, i pretty much have all what i want, whenever i want...no complains at all

Once i got a "Hi" followed by a whole conversation with a Swiss stranger (her move), do i qualify for a reward!!