Thank you!
The Volvo XC90 and Landrover Discovery deal with the 4*4 class. The Multivan/Viano for those who prefer a more "van" style.
Alternatively the Opel Zafira and Ford Galaxy and more "minivan" in style.
Or a Fiat Multipla for people without style... (on the upside is it probably the least stolen car ever...)
I don't drive either of them, but from people active in car-forums, most who have one are very pleased with it.
Not available as 4x4 and automatic (it's either or).
Some extras you can't get with a Seat, but they can be had for much less money instead.
The VW Multivan is even more expensive than the Sharan (and even larger than the aforementioned Sharan/Alhambra) - but it does offer more space.
Visit a typical shopping-center here, witness the parking-lots made for "compact cars" and realize just how handy sliding doors could come ...
We went for the viano in the end, cheaper (by 20k) then the vw van, not quite as nice inside, but 7 proper seats, proper luggage space even with all seats used, drives ok, stops ok, fuel use is ok, 4x4 auto, very happy with it so far
as with all german cars if you add a few options the price goes through the roof, we just stuck to a special ed. with no extra options (much to the dealers disgust lol)
Disco is a great car - and the seats are all useable - fairly easy to get into - and is a complete all year round car. And despite its size it's square shape makes it easy to park (IMHO)
However - it is heavy and that shape makes it thirsty; the reliability is still not up to Germanic levels; the cost of servicing can be pretty steep and luggage space is not ideal with 7 people in it. (6 people would allow 1 seat of be tucked under the floor so be exceptable.
Good car, a lot of space, 7 seats, very reliable. That is it!
land rover and reliable are not a set of words that usually go together, without an un in there anyway.
We looked at the landi, and it was discounted pretty quickly, with 7 people you have more space then the seat, granted, but its still not enough to get more then 1 suitcase in, and the price!! its shocking, and again, to get anywhere near decent levels of equipment means a long list of options.
We only have three kids and drive a Ford Grand C-Max. It also offers seven seats and sliding doors bit I think would be tight for a family bogger than ours. The other smaller van of this size with sliding doors is a Mazda.
Friends of ours with four children are happy with their Ford Galaxy. But I think it offers neither sliding doors nor AWD.
I vote for the Sienna!
we also looked at the pathfinder, prices are reasonable here (compared to the others in its class) reviews are a bit patchy, space again is a bit limited with all seats in use. comes in around the same price as the 4x4 Viano.
you could also look at the Toyota landcruiser, but again, the latest version of that also has limited space with all seats in use that was my no1 choice before I looked at the new version, we had the previous version in the uk and that was really good with all seats in use.