since you asked in apparent earnest...
french -smench.
turn up the temperature.
a woman is a woman.
relax/acquiesce. you did say woman yes? let’s face it: its all in her hands. it’s her ride. if its you its you. if its not you then its nothing personal. so much of it actually has nothing to do with you anyway. its a story in our heads.
clarity/intent. tell yourself the truth. what are you looking for? recreation? a relationship? real love? your desired net result (regardless of the outcome) will help determine the approach/actions/re-actions regardless of where the woman is from. let it flow...
sincerity/self. what are you comfortable doing? what kind of a date are you ? if you are not a 'pay for a woman' kinda guy then when you reach for your wallet - cause its the right thing to do - she will notice the discord. no matter what advice you get - be true to yourself. a woman is going to respect a man who not only knows himself but is true to himself. respect being a relative term...
pony patrol. its in our dna. we want to be on the back of the horse charging through the battle with the man most likely to survive. most capable of protecting us. so, show us your testosterone. your ability to protect. your willingness to do anything for us and too us to please us. trust me - you will get your pony ridden irregardless of your age, race, creed or colour. bald or not bald. fat or not fat. poor or not poor. k - maybe not poor...
no and yes. yes and no. someone already said it. if its 'on' she is going to let you know with in the first 15 min of dinner. if its yes, from that point its up to you to 'screw' it up from there (no pun intended). if its no there is nothing you can do or say that is going to make it a yes - to anything. cept maybe plying her with copious amounts of alcohol. then again, if she 'lets' you get her drunk then her dirty girl already said yes anyway. comatose, however, is a no go zone...
random dating a 'real' woman points...
1. the seduction starts from the first contact (regardless of the form - e.g., phone, internet, face-to-face, etc.) and continues indefinitely. always be en garde.
2. pay, pay and then pay again until you are invited. even then, do not get used to the invite. u-da-man.
3. bring something to the date. flowers. your favourite cake/candy/goodie to share. a book you love. make sure its simple, thoughtful and spoiling.
4. humor, honesty and kindness - completely underrated qualities when dating (in general).
good luck & enjoy your self for goodness sake!
I'll be looking forward to a debriefing...
A delightful dinner in a nice restaurant where the ladies menu doesn't have any prices.
Do not talk about your mother, ex-wife, alimony payments, what's wrong with your job or how the twenty-somethings are just sooo nice
Do appreciate her (otherwise why did you ask her out?) and make her laugh
Enjoy yourself and relax, she'll feel at ease.
You pay (next time too)
A goodnight kiss is quite harmless.. if she likes you, hints will be dropped left and right
hope you had a nice time
I bet he followed this little advice and is probably still strapped down in bed with her...