I hate hate hate hot weather. Anything over 20 and I start to get seriously grumpy. You really don't want to meet me on a 30 degree day.
My cooling routine is much like Mathnut's. When the temps outside are cooler than inside, all windows open. Once they start to rise, usually by 8AM, windows and blinds closed for the rest of the day. Awnings help as well.
Fans in every room, use as needed.
Look on one of the detailed weather sites to determine when the coolest part of the day is in your area. Here in Ausserschwyz it's 2-5AM. That is when opening the windows to cool down the house is effective. Plays havoc with my sleep in summer, but ya do whatcha gotta do.
The heat in the house feels worse when the air is humid, so I bought a dehumidifier to run when needed. 25 degrees in the house with 50% humidity is not nearly so bad as 25 degrees with 90%.
I won't lie - my routine makes a summer heatwave bearable, but that's all. Cool in summer is not possible given how and when this house was built. The house heats up quickly and retains heat for ages - great for the winter heating costs, certainly, but hell in summer.
We cannot install a real air conditioner due to the Quartier Gestaltungsplan (an outside condenser violates the exterior regulations) and the fiddly units that you have to jerryrig an exhaust hose out the window mean you have a vulnerable entry point, a concern given the rise in burglaries in my area. So nighttime cooling, dark during the day is the best alternative.
My routine goes out the window, literally, when OH is home. He is of the opinion that windows must be open to let the sunshine in - so my cool-ish house heats right up when he decides to work from home. We've been arguing about this for the 20 years we have been here...
(Note to young'uns considering tying the knot - discuss room temperature preferences before saying 'I do'. )
Hope you find a solution that helps to bring the temps down a bit...