Strip Clubs In Basel???

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I am dyinnngg to hear this one..

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ON a serious note: Only pursue the case if you are willing to break up with him, otherwise just let it be.

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one word: mass-rebound

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Only if you are willing to wipe the tears and hear the sob stories the next morning, and endless series of text messages "how you are the right kind of man, she was looking for"

Costume ideas for a steamy weekend together?

"What is it that YOU (the girl) has which the other women, even the strippers dont have and is so damned attractive for him (the guy)"

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I wish I knew what it was... I was home all night with a nice evening planned for us and a ruined dinner while he never answered the phone, or emails.. Love to learn the good explanation for that..

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Being positive, I think you have a nice guy, I mean hes stupid enough to go to a strip club and use his credit card AND he did it the night when he knew you had plans with him.

Dumb enough to be a good husband, is how I see it

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reading that just makes me and

i guess you should always look on the positive side of things...

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Its time for me to go and check out the girls at the "Silver dollar " it has been years Thanks for remaining me

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And yet I bet you are still with him a year from now, posting threads about how much of a plonker he is.

Any sane women would consider ending a relationship over stuff like that... it's hardly going to the shops and forgetting the milk. He knew what day it was, knew you'd planned something special, and spent the night drooling over womens boobs while purposefully ignoring all of your calls while you sat at home wondering what the chuff was going on. You should be wearing his balls as ear-rings by now.

I will stand by my earlier post that there is nothing wrong with a man going to a strip joint under normal circumstances... but not in light of what you said about him later. He sounds like a douchebag.

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I bet he only did buy drinks. Go easy on him I don't think he's cheated on you!

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Time to take out the lie testers and interrogate your hubbie methinks:

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You're right. Here, give me a hug and tell me about it.

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You're a very wise man indeed

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You have a point, how selfish was him? Or worse how desperate to get laid was he for him to go on that day? Really i see no potential for excuses here

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Key phrase is "it's been years". The Silver Dollar is probably now a furniture warehouse. Now don't you, forgetting your spectacles, be slipping dollar bills between the garments of some muscled foreman, y'hear. Take care, Cannut.

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What I find surprising is, if you see naked women, then how can you NOT want to have sex?!

Guys who can go to strip clubs and keep cool after the show, totally amaze me!

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On a serious note SS, it's pretty clear (at least from what you're saying) there is quite a problem with your relationship. I think I read on your dog problem thread that you've only been married 2 years or so, well to me, this behaviour is just not on.

I would just be a little careful how much you post here. Your husband may be a member here or at least a lurker and from what you have already said about yourselves (location, length of marriage, problem with the dog, strip club visit on V Day) it will be very easy from him to identify himself in this story.

If he does find this, it could exacerbate the problem. Only you know him here so think about how he might react if he were to find out what you have been saying about your marriage to a bunch of strangers. Just saying, that's all (and good luck BTW).

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So did I, but I was kicked out, because I looked like one of those crazy feminists...

Very valid point! My favorite post of the day actually!

Oh, honey, hush!

Uh yeah, but have you ever heard of Human trafficking? Dare you to watch the movie Lilya 4ever, tell me what you think about it. Do you have a little cute cousine? Could you imagine that she would be sold to prostitution? That is reality man. As ugly as it gets.

Yes. Did anyone write on this thread that women didn't cheat?

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I'm occasionally told that I drink too much. I might try your method.

Will it be tax deductable?

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Try it while on a business trip and claim it as Expenses.

New Years and Valentines, 2 occassions when people do silly things, more than usual