It was just an ironic comment that to most men, the best sec is always the kind you haven't had yet, with the woman that you either can't have or haven't met. Once you've seen something you want to see, it no longer holds the same magic, but the things you haven't yet seen...
The point is that the suggestion of the unknown and the fantasy is almost ALWAYS and nearly without exception sexier and more provocative than the reality, simply because we as humans are mentally programmed to subconsciously become "accustomed" or "used to" to whatever we are doing, in a reasonably short time. It's why a shallow man can lust after a beautiful woman for months, then once has has her then completely lose interest.
Just my musings, to be interpreted or as misinterpreted as ye see fit.
Although I am not a man, I do understand what you are saying. Often the wait, full of fantasies is the best part. But then, on those rare occasions you are surprised and the opposite happens- you think "nah, it can't get better" and then it does.
Soooo... how many married people in this thread are going to admit to having woefully dull sex lives now that romance has faltered and drudgery set in, and how many single people are going to admit they're not getting any at the moment? Or vice-versa.